How to Protect Your Identity as an Escort

Working as one of our high-class London escorts can be incredibly empowering, but for some, keeping their real identity private is essential if they want to feel in control.

Some companions are happy to show their faces and use bold branding, which works beautifully for them. But if you’d rather stay under the radar, you’re not alone. Many escorts choose to protect their privacy in different ways, especially when juggling personal lives, families, or side jobs outside the industry.

Whether you're brand new or just looking to tighten up your boundaries, this guide breaks down the best ways to stay discreet, without compromising your bookings, your brand, or your confidence.

Contents:

• Create a Separate Escort Persona
• Be Strategic with Photos
• Handle Payments with Privacy in Mind
• Protect Your Privacy During Incalls
• Clean Up Your Digital Footprint
• Have a Cover Story Ready

Create a Separate Escort Persona

This is step one for every high-class companion when joining the industry —and it’s non-negotiable.

Even if you were happy showing your face online, your escort persona should be completely separate from your real-world identity. That means new contact details, new habits, and a new online presence. Here’s how to set it up properly:

• Pick a professional stage name: Make sure it doesn’t overlap with your personal usernames or nicknames. Avoid anything that could be traced back to you.
• Buy a separate phone or SIM: Use this only for escorting. Keep it off when you’re not working—it helps with both safety and boundaries.
• Create a dedicated work email: Use a neutral name that matches your escort brand (e.g. bookings.valentina@ or contact.piper@).
• Separate social media accounts: If you use platforms like Twitter or Instagram for promotion, set up a fresh profile and don’t follow your personal accounts or friends.

It might feel like overkill at first, but every layer of separation protects you in the long run. It also helps you switch into work mode—and switch back out again afterwards.

Feel like you need a little more insight before joining the industry? Read our blog on why women choose to become high-class companions. 

Be Strategic with Photos

Your photos are often the first thing a client notices, but they’re also the most common way your identity can be exposed. Some escorts show their full face, and that’s a personal decision. But the majority choose to crop half their face out, blur features, or pose in ways that protect their anonymity. 

Here’s how to stay visually enticing while keeping your privacy intact:

• Avoid showing your full face unless you're completely comfortable with the long-term risks. Once it's online, you lose control of where it ends up.
• Hide identifying features: Tattoos, birthmarks, scars, and piercings can all give you away. Use lingerie, hair, or strategic poses to keep them covered—or blur them out before uploading.
• Don’t mix personal and professional images: Never reuse pictures from private social media accounts. Escorts have been recognised because of a holiday pic posted years earlier.
• Use watermarks on your photos: If you're working independently, watermarking your images with your escort name (or the agency’s logo) helps protect your brand from image theft or reposting.

“Clients don’t need to see your whole face to be turned on. I crop mine in every photo and keep the focus on my body. I actually believe that most of the clients are drawn to the mystery, and it stops anyone connecting the dots with my real life.”
– Valentina

To see more of Valentina's discreet yet enticing pictures, visit her profile and browse her gallery. 

Handle Payments with Privacy in Mind

Money might change hands in private—but how it’s handled can leave a digital trail. If you're serious about protecting your identity, your financial setup needs to be just as discreet as the rest of your work life.

If you're working through a professional agency like Elite Society, discretion is already built in. All payments are taken in cash, and your legal name is never shared with clients.

But if you’re working independently, you’ll need to put a few extra safeguards in place:

• Use a separate account: Set up a bank account under your working name if possible, or use platforms that allow trading names or business aliases.
• Stick to cash whenever you can: Especially for in-person bookings, it’s clean, simple, and doesn’t tie back to your real identity.
• Avoid personal payment apps: PayPal, Venmo, and even Revolut can display your real name or email by default. If you must use one, create a work-only version and test it before accepting payments.
• Be cautious with invoicing platforms: Many generate receipts or statements that can reveal sensitive details. Keep things as minimal and anonymous as possible.

Protect Your Privacy During Incalls

If you offer incalls—especially from your own apartment or a private rental—you need to be extra cautious about what your environment reveals. Small details can quickly give away more than you realise.

• Clear out personal belongings: Letters, photos, shopping lists, and personal items should all be hidden or removed. Anything with your real name or everyday routines is a red flag.
• Keep the space neutral: Aim for elegant but impersonal decor. Avoid anything too distinctive or sentimental that a client might remember or comment on later.
• Use a separate incall space if possible: Many escorts rent a short-term apartment specifically for bookings—it keeps your personal life and work completely separate.
• Be neighbour-aware: If clients are coming and going, have a discreet cover story ready for neighbours (see next section). 

“When I first started, I worked from home—and I hated how exposed it made me feel. Now I use a serviced apartment, and I never have to panic about hiding things last minute.”
– Irina 

To learn more about the busty beauty pictured above, visit Irina's profile. 

If you're a big-breasted companion yourself, browse our busty escorts gallery to see the stunning women you'd be joining. 

Clean Up Your Digital Footprint

Even if you think your escort persona is separate from your real life, the internet has a way of connecting dots you didn’t mean to share. Managing your digital footprint is one of the most important—and overlooked—parts of staying anonymous.

• Google yourself regularly: It’s the fastest way to catch anything unexpected. Look at both your real name and your escort name.
• Use a separate browser or device for work: This helps keep your cookies, history, and autofill details from crossing over.
• Turn off location sharing: On your phone, camera, apps—even photos can carry GPS data in the metadata.
• Use a VPN: Especially when uploading content, emailing clients, or managing listings. It adds a layer of privacy many escorts skip.

Have a Cover Story Ready

Even if you’re discreet, sooner or later someone might notice you have “a lot of visitors” or strange hours. That’s where a good cover story comes in. Many escorts say they’re a massage therapist, yoga instructor, or a freelancer working in marketing or web design. Some keep props—like a massage table or desk setup—visible just in case.

The trick is to keep it simple and vague. You don’t owe anyone details. Just enough to satisfy a nosy neighbour or curious landlord.

“I tell people I do admin for a wellness brand. It’s vague enough that no one really questions it, and it explains why I work odd hours or have private clients popping in.”
– Alina 

Visit Alina's profile to see more of this blonde beauty. 

Worried you might run into someone you know? Read our guide on what to do if that ever happens.

Stay Private, Stay Sexy

Your escort persona is yours to shape, but your real identity is yours to protect. Whether you’re showing your face or keeping things low-key, it’s all about control. The more intentional you are with your privacy, the more confident and empowered you’ll feel in your work.

Thinking of joining an elite agency that puts your discretion first? Apply to join Elite Society here.